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If you are a woman who wants to create healthy, empowering relationships without  resorting to Tequila, Ben & Jerry’s or *67, you’re in the right place

I have some ideas that could help if...

 

  • You’re struggling with sex, love and dating and you’d really rather discover how to be confident, sassy, and in the flow with all that

  • You are the partner of an addicted person and are ready to heal from the adverse effects of living with active addiction (oh girl, I feel you)
  • You’re feeling stuck in relational patterns and while you haven’t lost your sense of humor about that, it’s really heartbreaking and painful and isn’t it time you did something about it?
  • You’re healing from a divorce or separation and you could use some support to walk into the next stage of your life like a QUEEN
  • You’re contemplating ending your relationship and you’re just not sure if you should stay or go…

In the community

Known for her work with high-performing individuals, Dufflyn’s private clients include Oscar-winning actors, business pioneers, and multiple Grammy-winning musicians. She is passionate about creative living and contributing to the  community. Below are a few articles and videos.

Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

Dufflyn and Damona dish on boundaries, fighting fair, emotional regulation, and more in this HOT episode of the popular dating podcast

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Can You Really Be Addicted to Love? 


Dufflyn's talk at the She Recovers Mental Health Monday Recovery Educational Series on the subject of Love Addiciton

 

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I Didn't Want to Marry Him, Or Did I? 

A Personal Essay by Dufflyn in the LA Times' LA Affairs Column

 

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Single Life 

Dufflyn's hilarious spoken word anthem on Russel Simmons Def Poetry (HBO) 

 

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Trauma Thrivers with Lou Lebentz

 

Dufflyn visits with Lou and Melanie at the Trauma Thrivers Podcast to talk about healing attachment trauma. 

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Discovered Solo Play

A Story of Drugs, Alcohol, Hollywood and “Mama," at the Hollywood Fringe Festival, 2017

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We Are All Recovering From Something 

A Performance at at the SHE RECOVERS FOUNDATION GALA at SHE RECOVERS in LA | Beverly Hilton September 2018

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How to Date in Recovery with Michelle Manley

 

Dating Coach Michelle Manley interviews Relationship & Recovery Coach Dufflyn Lammers about how to date in recovery.

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Sex In Recovery with She Recovers

 

“What is sex?” and “How might sex be different in recovery? What about attachment styles, addictions, and getting what you need before, during and after sex? 

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Hi, I'm Dufflyn Lammers

 

This is my Story

 

“Love me,” he sings.

It is my mantra, my battle cry, the longing I haul wherever I go but unload only when I sing along. Or when I drink.

I am sixteen and totally crushed out on The Longhair’s pouty lips and Bubble Yum voice.

Backstage I stand side-by-side with him for a photo. I am trying so hard in my miniskirt and flea market heels.

It will be years before I can pull the projection inward and harness my popcorn heart; years before I can quit managing my feelings with drugs and alcohol. 

Every woman can have the love she wants.

And we might need to grow. We might need some guidance.

We might need someone to love us while we learn to love ourselves.

I am trained in Attachment Repair, Tantra, Intervention, and Coaching. This makes me a powerful ally for any woman on a healing journey who wants to create healthy relationships without slipping into old patterns.

I wish I could talk to the vulnerable girl I was back then.

I would tell her; you have everything you need inside you. And yes, you deserve more. Do not ever, ever, ever give up. 

 

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From the Outside In and the Inside Out

We use a tried and true Coaching method to work from the “outside in” to develop a plans goals and actionable steps and provide accountability that will give you immediate relief.

And we work from the “inside out” using the clinically proven Ideal Parent Figure Protocol technique to generate an internal shift that will change the way you feel about yourself, the world, and others in a deep and lasting way.

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