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Special Guest Kelly McDaniel – Mother Hunger, Ep. 16

Special Guest Kelly McDaniel – Mother Hunger, Ep. 16

Mother Hunger - What an attachment injury FEELS like (an enduring heartache)  In Episode 16 I'm bringing in Special Guest Kelly McDaniel to talk about Mother Hunger. Kelly McDaniel, is a licensed professional counselor and author, specializing in treating women who...

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 15, Part II

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 15, Part II

Is Amy the only one who is scared about dating again? I mean, get real. In Part II of Episode 15 I'm bringing in Special Guest Kim Litton to talk about re-engaging in dating and what we do when we've had a "slip." Her laid back and "candid" approach made this episode...

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 15

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 15

What happens when you're ready to date again?  You get scared.    In this episode Amy updates us about her first dating adventures (tragedies if you ask her).  I call it as I see it - Amy is talking herself out of dating. She's "too old," she's depressed, she's got to...

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 14

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 14

Is insecurity standing the the way of you and the relationship you want? There is a solution!    It's called IPF: Ideal Parent Figure Protocol and it is the subject of this episode. IPF was developed by Daniel P. Brown at Harvard University. The protocol is part of...

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 13

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 13

What's the most important element of recovery from Sex & Love Addiction, Codependency, and Attachment Disorder?   CLARITY. Boom. This is a central theme in all forms of recovery, no matter where you are coming from. And we talked about it in our last episode but...

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 12

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 12

Is it or is it not a "date?" When Amy gets asked out to lunch she has a dilemma. We all know that the disease lurks in secrets, lies, and vagueness. So, this episode is all about clarity, what it is and why we need it.  My guest Amy Dresner asks this question and more...

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 11

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 11

How do you rebuild after withdrawal? Amy begins the process of rebuilding; creating a vision, moderating her reality, and enforcing boundaries. My guest Amy Dresner is determined to become secure in both recovery and relationships. This is how we do the work ya'll....

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 10

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 10

Do people say you're too intense? Well you could just tell them, "Hey that's me, love me or leave me." But Amy reveals that she actually feels panicky, anxious and lonely in that reality. So we go through the moves to uncover a new reality that feels freaking awesome....

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 9

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 9

Amy has accomplished something she could never do before: Withdrawal. Amy and I talk about French men, becoming the person we used to make fun of, Rob Lowe, relationships & relapse, and how she has made a HUGE shift in consciousness around sex, love and dating....

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Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 8

Getting Intimate With Amy Dresner – Ep. 8

Love actually is, all around you. If Amy didn't know it before, she knows it now. In the midst of the pandemic, Amy struggles with her own health challenge and a huge scare for her beloved cat Colonel Puff Puff and comes to some profound revelations that will affect...

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